My Child Doesn't Want Me..

My child chooses others over me constantly.... And it hurts. She chooses her father over me, she chooses my best friend over me, and chooses her biomom over me. It hurts so bad because she voices her choices constantly. It feels like she's rubbing it my face that she doesn't want me, even tho I know she's not, I mean she's 3.. And I know this is fairly common, doesn't make it hurt any less though. The hardest thing is, I can't even talk to my husband about it because it's an irrational feeling, one that makes no sense, so he's not gonna care and expects me to do the same... But I can't... It hurts too much to ignore. Hopefully she'll grow out of this soon, because I am so over it already..